The Manipulation Myth: What's Really Happening When Your Kid Acts Out

She is playing you. He is working you. Don't let her get away with that, she's testing you. If you've heard any version of that line about your child, I want you to hear this episode before another professional or relative says it to you again. Your child is not manipulating you: neurologically, they don't yet have the hardware to. In this episode, I'm walking through the science of what's actually happening underneath behavior that looks like manipulation, the cost of buying into that story, and the protocol I use with my clients to respond differently starting today. Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for details. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I had been told the same story since I became a mom: “children are manipulative”, “They do that on purpose”. I believed it. I bargained and threatened, my daughter melted down harder, and the wall between us got higher. I had been told kids push their parents because they want the power, so I tried to take the power back. It didn't work. It actually never works, because that is not what is really happening,

In this episode, I'm walking you through what is actually happening. We'll cover the neuroscience of why your child genuinely cannot manipulate you the way a grown adult can, the translation guide for the behaviors that look most manipulative (from the meltdown over cereal to the "you don't love me" line), and the response protocol you can use today. There is so much we can find out when we ask the right question.

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