Why does your toddler say no to everything — even things they usually do without a problem?
In this episode, Dr. Cathryn explains the “you-can’t-make-me” reflex — a very normal (and healthy) stage of toddler development that often gets mistaken for defiance.
You’ll learn:
Why toddler resistance is about development, not disrespect
What’s happening inside your child’s brain when “no” comes out fast
The situations that make resistance worse (and why)
What not to do if you want cooperation
Simple, big-hearted ways to guide your child through resistance without power struggles
If mornings feel like constant pushback and you’re wondering, “Why is everything so hard?” — this episode will help you see your toddler differently and respond with more calm and confidence.
RESOURCES:
The Big-Hearted School Of Parenting membership
Toddlers Made Easy - a sweet & smart online course
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